What to do, when your spouse just lays there,while you try so hard?

I always do all the work, and he just lays there. How can I change this?What to do, when your spouse just lays there,while you try so hard?
I do most of the work as well... I don't really care as long as I get what I need.....................What to do, when your spouse just lays there,while you try so hard?
I had a similar problem with my husband for awhile, but finally figured out I was making it to easy for him. Men like the chase. So after about a week of me just not trying he was humpin my leg like a puppy! Now if Im in the ';mood'; I just pretend to not notice him and it drives him crazy.. the more i push back the harder he tries...
Not sure. He must be lazy. it is the same with my wife. no effort. no sound. no touching. it is hard.
Don't really know. I don't remember every having that happen to me before. Maybe if you just laid there he'd have to do something and he may even enjoy himself even more.
Not to long ago you answered another question that your hubby cleans up his mess, that ain't lying there.





Oh, ungratitude!
oooh that's pretty bad. He most likely isn't into any more. Why do you put up with it? Change it by getting some hot young thing and dumping him!
you may not be able to. try giving him the headache line for a couple of weeks and see if he comes around.
If I feel like Im putting more effort in I just tell him what I want and he does it.





Communication...