What do you do if you find yourself no longer attracted to your spouse?

I'm not married, I'm just curious.What do you do if you find yourself no longer attracted to your spouse?
you dont get so eager about sex, u know like al bundy! lol


but really like al sometimes, u suck it up and turn those lights out and


hope no1 gets up or wants the lights on.


otherwise you will either try to find a discreet relationship with understandings or file for divorced and not have to worry about having sex with that person your not attracted too..


some people do this, some people don't do thisWhat do you do if you find yourself no longer attracted to your spouse?
I would be an adult and take a step back and ask myself why do I feel the way I feel. I would also remind myself of why I chose to marry this man. This man I once, and still do, love and adore. I would reevaluate myself before pointing fingers as to what he is doing wrong. I would take a good look at the woman looking back at me in the mirror and check myself first. Then I would talk to my husband and explain I have feelings that I do not understand and work things out together and change some things in our marriage for the best. I would meet the problem head on.
if you love him, find out what is attracting him, and do the same on yours.
communicate to him/her your concern and do what you can to correct the issue
Move on.