Why am I not intersting making love with my spouse?

I am 36 years old and I am not feel connect to my spouse. I guess he had affair and I lost intersing having sex with him.


I do love him and he doesn't mind at all.


Is this nomal?Why am I not intersting making love with my spouse?
He doesn't mind at all???





You don't really believe that. That's why you're here asking a question. You shouldn't believe it, because no one with even half a functioning brain would believe it either.





He might be willing to punishing himself to make up for having an affair, but without a doubt, he won't be willing to punish himself forever. You also need to remember... you're married to the kind of man who cheated when you WERE having sex with him... AND, there's some woman out there who was willing to have sex with him. Unless she's dead, you may be giving your husband the perfect excuse to look her up again.





Get yourself into some counseling... with, or without him.Why am I not intersting making love with my spouse?
Hello;





What an interesting question ...





I rather think that it is a little normal, but since it is bothering you the real question is what to do about it.





It sounds to me like there is a real lack of communication ';I guess he had an affair';. That is not something for guesswork either he had an affair or he didn't. If you don't know for sure then you might want to find out.





Ultimately you might want to get some professional help. Pretty much any marriage counsellor will be able to help you.





Best of luck,





Bill
This is very normal to feel angry and hurt at the affair. But if you want your marriage to work then you have to treat him like he is your husband. Nagging, withholding sex, and being angry will drive him right out the door.





If you are hurt beyond repair then end the marriage and move on.
Ask him if you can go to an adult toy store and be provactive with him. See if he has any interest in you with toys. See if he is turned on to you being there. Show him toys that both can use and or toys he can use on you. Tease him, by going through the movies telling how you would like it. See if they have dress up clothes and tempt him with them. Tell him how you are going dress up in them and how you are going to do a striptease or tell him how you want him to do you with them on. Be a sensual schoolgirl. Let him in on your fantasies. If this doesn't get him interested in you. He must be GAY. Divorce the ******.
in my line of work when a man is not a little upset by his wife's lack of making love he might be having another affair. so in terms that would not be normal. i think that you two could see a Professional, no offense, because i would hate for you two to be just another statistic. i hope this helps. happy new year
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HUH ?? You ';GUESS'; he had an affair???? WTF is that??





Communicate with him. Find out for sure! Then communicate with him more and decide if you can forgive his behavior or not.





It sounds like two strangers living in the same house..
Once someone has had an affair is is hard to trust again which also makes it hard to feel comfortable enough to be Intimate! You need to reconnect as a couple and then the sex will come!
You feel detached because he broke your trust. You need counseling because you obviously has not forgiven or forgotten. Things will only get worse. Have you ever thought he does not mind because he still gets it elsewhere?
Maybe you need to tell him how freeking pissed off you are he slept with another woman...then you both need to work out the problems in your marriage.
as long as he is still paying the bills and he dont mind you not having sex with him .. why do you care ...
No it is not. See a marriage counselor.