Is it possible to have a sex partner that is better than your spouse?

Have you ever been with someone who was AWESOME in bed but their personality sucked? Conversely, have you ever loved everything about someone but they sucked in bed?Is it possible to have a sex partner that is better than your spouse?
Personally, it is not about the sex per se, it is about the quality of the intimacy. Without love their is no intimate relationship and therefore it lacks the physical and emotional attachments that make sex great. Without intimacy you are just getting sweaty and hot and bothered for a whole lot of nothing, it is just f*****g for gratification. It may provide pleasure but not a deep level of pleasure like you get after sex with someone that you are truly intimate with.Is it possible to have a sex partner that is better than your spouse?
Perhaps that's why having sex with multiple partners isn't such a good idea! If you save it for your life partner, you don't have anything to compare it to. How can they ever hope to live up to the expectations you have because of some sexual partner from your past!
Yeah, I've had both.


One was great in bed, but irritated me all the time.


The other was the funniest, nicest, most interesting guy, but couldn't even get it up.
Judging by the number of divorces resulting from adultry, i would say it's more than possible. It's PROBABLE.


..lol glad i'm not married.
Eww that is cheating. You're so sick to even think about it.