Is it normal to hate your spouse when you become pregnant?

I just became pregnant, and lately I have despised my spouse. It's really odd...Is this normal? Is it the hormone rush? Or what?Is it normal to hate your spouse when you become pregnant?
yes it is. When I became pregnant with baby # 2 my hubby was wanting sex all the time and I would be like uggg!! Anything he would do would make me soo mad. I mean the stupidest things. It was to the point that he started staying late at work. But eventually my hormones started leveling out. I am 37 weeks and have apoligized so much. And my sex drive is crazy right now so he is a very happy man and I am making it up to him. These poor men.Is it normal to hate your spouse when you become pregnant?
Yes, because they are the ones who did this to you and you are mad they don't feel the way you do.
i have the same problem. my husband always wants to have sex, and right now, just the thought of doing anything with him makes me sick. lol. but he should know the process of me being pregnant because this is our 2nd. but yes it's just the hormones.
Yup it is normal for me, I love my spunky but there have been points that i have considered being a single mum - then I come around and realise I am just being silly :)
i couldn't stand my husband when i was pregnant with our son he was the first one with my daughter i just loved him to death with this pregnancy i hate and love him at the same time...
I didn't start hating mine until late in the 2nd trimester... but I also love him in a way that I never have either... it's hormones!!! My senses all seem to be going haywire and working overtime, so he smells bad, chews too loud, dresses ugly, etc... I look forward to liking him again and I guarantee he wishes for his wife back!!!
LOL, yeah, that can actually happened to a woman. As the matter of fact I knew a friend whose husband had to sleep in another room because she couldn't tolerate him and his smell gave her nausea lol!!, the great thing was that he was a good sport about it, he knew it was the whole hormone thing that made her become in this person. Now 15 years later they are still happily married with three daughters.


Don't worry everything will get back to normal, just make sure your spouse understand that this can happened.
You are experiencing normal behavior. Your hormones are out of whack and you have a baby sucking up all your energy and food. Who wouldn't get a little cranky. I would suggest you talk to your spouse about it though. He would be more understanding of what you are going through especially if he knew what would trigger you despising him. Maybe you could get him to rub your feet and get you ice cream...that would keep me from being irritated...or I should say did! ;) Happy pregnancy!
I feel the same way sometimes but it comes and goes. Sometimes I hate him with a vengence! I think it's because I resent him getting me pregnant. He did it on purpose because he wanted to start a family. He doesn't have to deal with the pain though! Being pregnant hurts and is not fun, at least for me anyway.
I was so moody with my baby's daddy in the beginning, I was pretty terrible. No one made me mad like he did. I never really snapped on anyone but him in the midst of my hormones. I think its very normal!