How do you take someone into the home, who is not cooperative and could cause friction with you and spouse?

This person has caused friction between my hus and I., my bro and wife, my sis and hus, for many years. If bring ing them into your home is an option, the husbands would be leaving out the backdoor, what to do??How do you take someone into the home, who is not cooperative and could cause friction with you and spouse?
if its going to cause problems with the spouse, just don't do it. don't buy trouble when u have a choice not to.if u know this about these people and still choose to bring them into your home, u have caused your own heartache.How do you take someone into the home, who is not cooperative and could cause friction with you and spouse?
Well in my opinion once your married it not Just you...but ur husband has to be included in about ever decision being made in the house....it would be very selfish of you bringing in a person to your home that you know is going to cause friction and problems to your marriage. But just try looking at the situation and think about why they bring problems to your marriage, then see if its really necessary for them to come to you...see if they might have other places to go to and if not talk to them talk to your husband and maybe you guys can work something out were ';the person'; will only stay for x amount of time till he/she can find another place to stay and get back on there feet....like that you wont feel like you completely turned your back on that person and tried helping them out as much as you were able to without hurting your marriage...
think five times before you become a teacher (smile). I am sorry darling but this is what you wanted. We always come first. Always. How arrogant she must have been, how ignorant, how little did she know you, how completely silly your life appeared to be, how I would wished that never had to witness such a fall.....Before you say ';I DO'; to a disciple, you need to be sure 100 000 000 000 million percent you are done with yourself. And none of you were done with yourself. On top of it, terribly terribly arrogant uneducated and cold hearted. A disaster waiting to explode......But, what the f+)ack do I do in that story! Just because you have special powers to rape an innocent person, now I have to be a part of it. I am not. Not any more. Never will be. Ever. In my world, disciple comes first, always first, before anything else, before you yourself, before blood child, before family, before anything. To accept someone to guide them to freedom, only God can do that. And to be a teacher, only God can approve that. If you have His approval for what you are doing, well we have different Gods, I am sorry.
well my wife would not bring anyone in my house that would cause friction. and I would do the same for her it's our house a place that is safe for both of us
Who is the someone? Why would you want to bring this someone into your home? Knowing that your hubby might leave you, because of it. Unless that's what you really want to happen.
is this retorhical?


obvious answer is you do not take them in


dont go to random internet people for obvious answers


it makes you look like you have mental problems
The husband comes first. Tough luck for the hard to get along with individual. They need to work on their attitude.
People like that I've avoided for over 5 yrs, meaning they haven't stepped foot in my house period.
It's easy. If the person or couple are going to cause problems, don't have them in your home. It's as simple as that.
Uh, don't take them in......
Is it Big Al?
you live in a trailer park or something?