Whats your thoughts on planning/scheduling sex with your spouse?

I dont see how that could work cause what if the day you planned on making love your spouse isn't horny and the husband/wife who is horny would be disappointed..So i dont think planning/scheduling sex is a good idea it should just spontaneousWhats your thoughts on planning/scheduling sex with your spouse?
your right it isnt as romantic and someone would more than likely to not be ';in the mood'; but from personal experience i can say sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do.


if there are REAL reasons involved like children, busy work schedules, or opposet work hours then it ends up almost nesiscary.


look at it this way what whould you rather have: unspontanous sex or NO SEX?


just because its planned doesnt mean it has to be mundane. even if times the issue there are ways to spice it up, make sure to turn each other on, rev your engines or what ever it takes. sex is very important in a marriage. someone being unhappy or unfufilled is enough to end it... badly Whats your thoughts on planning/scheduling sex with your spouse?
Sounds boring and not much fun. But if the two of you can't seem to ever get together, then maybe make it a point to do something special together on certain days, just the two of you. Call it date night. Go out to dinner or a movie or even just rent a movie, curl up on the couch together and spend some quality time together. Maybe it will lead to sex and maybe it won't.





I don't think it works to make an appointment for sex. One person will expect to have sex that night whether their spouse is in the mood or not and the person who's not in the mood will feel pressured and forced to perform. Making love is something you do out of desire, when it becomes a duty, nobody enjoys it and it becomes destructive to the marriage.
Hi, seems i am always getting your questions and it always does interest me to answer it, anyway, i hoe you don't mind if i will still answer it. In my case, i don't or we don't plan to have it, we always let the things happen which fortunately always happen. Because base on my experience, if we love each other enough, by just hugging and simple kiss, the couple will be always turn on to each other and end up in the bed by night or whenever they have chance. If mostly for those couple who are busy, i guess they really have to put it on schedule specially if they are not doing most of the time or everytime they want it, at least they have time to look forward for it. Foreplay should not always start on bed, i don't mean by just hugging or showing yourself sexually to your partner but the other things that you may impress him/her, like being responsible, good person and a good spouse, will makes lots of difference in turning on each other. So scheduling may not be bad for those couples who likes sex but just don't have time for it, at least they can prepare themselves. But may be not so advisable for those couple who is not really looking forward to it and they found sex as boring or becoming like a chore and or schedulilng sex's turn them off. If they don't believe it better not to do it and let the good ambiance with them to work.
we don't really plan sex but it usually on the weekend because during the week things with work and just every day life you just need to rest at night. I am not saying we don't have sex through the week sometimes because if one of us needs it the other is up for it. Weekends are just when we are more relaxed and have the time to spend with each other and feels like the sex is better and waiting always makes things better when you finally get it.


We have been married for 12 years and been together 15 yrs and it just works for us.
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but, especially if you put just a little effort into it, sometimes there is something to be said for mutual anticipation.



it depends from person 2 person.......well,scheduling sounds funny............mood differs which inturn affects sex life..........so ur sex life is deternined on ur mood and how u want 2 go about..........
If both have really busy schedules then I don't think it's a bad idea. I'm sure it works for some people. Personally I have trouble trying to keep a hairdressers appointment!
Boring, a marriage that might not last from lack of spontaneity. Why do you think people cheat, they fall into a routine.
Most convenient time schedule for the spouses .
men are turned on by schedules too



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