Wednesday, November 23, 2011

How long would it take for me to bring my spouse to the united states?

i have had my green card for 2 months now,and i will be getting married next month to a man that is from jordan and has no green card or american passport.how long will it take for me to bring him from jordan and come to live with me in the united states?How long would it take for me to bring my spouse to the united states?
If you have a green card (LPR) and file for your husband, he will be considered F2A (family-based second-preference part A). You will need to file an I-130 to sponsor him to come to the US. You will have to wait for processing and then for a visa to become available. According to the State Department's monthly visa bulletin, they are processing applications in category F2A that were filed on March 15, 2002. That means you are looking at about a four to five year wait.





He can always file for adjustment of status if he can obtain an independent non-immigrant visa (a work or school visa). In order to file for adjustment, he must be in the US in valid non-immigrant status. If he comes as a tourist, for example, and then stays, he won't be eligible to adjust and will have to return home first. Also, time spent in the US out of status usually is counted as ';unlawful presence.'; Six months of unlawful presence and he won't be able to come back to the US for three years. If he's in the US in unlawful presence for a year or more, he's barred from coming back for 10 years.How long would it take for me to bring my spouse to the united states?
5 years you have to become a us citizen then you can called him over.





I used to worked for ins.
5 years
Up to one year.
It could take you about 5-6 years. You need to file form I-130 after you get married. Good luck.
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  • Should Prolonged abuse or Battered wife syndrome be used as an excuse for a killing of the spouse?

    I need points on this both positive and negative i jsut can quit grasp this and any help is appreciated thanks alot.Should Prolonged abuse or Battered wife syndrome be used as an excuse for a killing of the spouse?
    Well it's not really an excuse...in some cases a battered woman feels her only way out of the situation is to kill or be killed. If she killed her husband out of self defense then who can blame her. Battered wife syndrome can also cause depression and temporary insanity.





    Negative side: With all the battered women's shelters and hot-lines as well as all the other resources out there to get help, a woman has a choice to stay or leave. It's easier said then done but one phone call, one cry for help can save her life. But instead she might decide to take the law into her own hands which can result in premeditated murder. Should Prolonged abuse or Battered wife syndrome be used as an excuse for a killing of the spouse?
    It really depends. I think you have to look at the total circumstance as well as the psychological condition of the victim of the abuse.





    Also, length of time, type of abuse, techniques used by the abuser.... there are just too many factors.





    Last, It is battered ';spouse'; syndrome - women beat their husband's almost as often as men beat their wives AND, for the obvious reasons, it gets reported at an even lower rate. No surprise there.






    I know that prolonged abuse will help your case if you kill your spouse. Many abused women get lighter sentences.





    I don't think anyone shouldn't go to jail at all for killing someone - after all, if you're a battered woman you could have just left him. You don't have to kill him.





    But I think battered women should get lighter sentences. And often they do.
    I'm sure if I would use the term ';excuse';. I believe that there are cases in which an abused person is so traumatized that they take the action they feel necessary to save thier own lives. But I'm not prepared to say it's right or wrong/good or bad. I've never experienced anything like it, so I have no right to judge.
    yes. other more ridiculous reasons are used.
    There's never an excuse, but some women snap.
    Hell no! Not when your capable of walking away from it! There are shelters.

    Is their a math problem about how much sweat you burned off while having sex with your spouse?

    I was just curious. their got to be a way to figure out how much sweat you are burning off while having sex with your spouse.Is their a math problem about how much sweat you burned off while having sex with your spouse?
    Lets invent one!

    How do you know when it is just resentment and not that you don't love your spouse any more.?

    We have both made mistakes. But even after working on it, I feel like if we were not married we would not even be good friends. We got married young and have grown very apart. How do I tell if it is just resentment or if it is just done.How do you know when it is just resentment and not that you don't love your spouse any more.?
    1. Stop making mistakes.


    2. Decide if you desire to be a good friend.


    3. Act on your desire.How do you know when it is just resentment and not that you don't love your spouse any more.?
    Both. If you have to ask then its done. Its very very common for youth marriages to fold over and you're not wrong to think this way. Marrying young is always a bad decision because as you get older what you want changes. I assume you married out of love. He made you smile and laugh and feel good about yourself. Most of the time talking and fantasizing about a future together and what flowers were going to be at your wedding way before determining your future. Its always important to take both love and rationality into consideration before taking such a big step.





    Understand that if you do choose to leave the marriage it will be incredibly hard, you will think of the past constantly, the way he made you feel, etc but its important to remember why exactly you left and how its time you plan for yourself and not how to get back at him for replacing the young love you once had with this hollow stranger.





    If you arent ready and believe there is still a change to fix it then simply go back in time. Those old resturants he'd take you, those funny pictures you took at the park, the embarrassing moments, the crazy situations of completet juvenile lust. Take it back and remind him why you got married. Why you married so young. And wy it once seemed like life would be perfect together. It is your happiness and your life, do what you will with it and hope in the end that it brings you higher.








    Anymore questions about life's hard situations I'd be more than happy to help. You can reach me at For_Life_Advice@yahoo.com.





    I hope I served you as some sort of assistance.
    My sister just went through a divorce after 33 years of marriage. They were married young. Never in my life have I ever seen such resentment between two people. Yes they tried to work at it but it was to little to late. They were both at fault. It even came down to pure hatred between the two. Your gut should be enough to tell you its over. Always listen to your instincts. Stop beating a dead horse.
    well if there is that much resentment then it is done. if you feel like you aren't married anymore then maybe you shouldn't be.





    if you do want it to work maybe you guys should try some marriage counseling or something so that you can work on getting a fresh start. but that is only if you want to.
    JUST resentment. Resentment is huge. Resentment does not exist because of small problems, leaving the toilet seat up, not rinsing a dish, etc. Resentment is proof of a lot of pain and is hard to overcome.


    If you want to find out, why not do a trial separation, but this will only work if you actually do stay separate and not depend on each other for anything.
    Same difference.


    Getting married young has little to do with it.





    Everyday you both constantly make choices to grow together or grow apart; choose apart too often and apart happens.





    You fell in love once before, you could do it again if you both wanted to.
    If you're not sure why you feel how you feel, maybe it would be beneficial to speak to a marriage counselor before considering throwing in the towel. That will help you decide if the issue is in the relationship or simply because you two grew and changed in different directions...
    Talk, talk, talk. It's the only cure. You won't lose anything. If you lose someone, it means that you never had them.
    You know it's over once you don't care enough to bring the spark back in your marriage. It sounds like that's how your marriage is.
    you shouldn't be with somebody you don't like enough you wouldn't be friends with if you had a pick

    What is one of your best memories of your future spouse that led to a better relationship?

    Or changed the course of your relationship...defined who you guys were together...???What is one of your best memories of your future spouse that led to a better relationship?
    When my now husband and I had only been together for about five months, I got my car towed. Long story! But, for the next two weeks until I could afford to get it back, he would wake up every morning at about 7, take me to my dorm so I could get ready, and he would go to work. Then he would come over at around 2 and spend about 2 hours with me. He'd take me to work at 4 and then come back and get me at 2 in the morning. Take me home and go to sleep and do it all over again. He planned his whole day around me when most guys would have said ';you're way more trouble than you're worth';. He stuck by me and I loved that about him!What is one of your best memories of your future spouse that led to a better relationship?
    I came out of a real bad relationship, I mean super bad. So I was just casual dating, and I let my now fiance know that I didn't want a relationship and he was cool with that in the beginning. Then nights spent over turned into days, and we eventually moved in together, my because it was bigger, then we got an even bigger place together because that is what he wanted, but anyway, he put up with my crazy. I mean all my crazy. And he is amazing for it and it has made us so strong because I can completely trust him, I would've beat me up if I were the man putting up with my crazy
    Going to the North Shore (Duluth). It's about a 2.5-3 hr. drive from the city, but it's like a completely different atmosphere. I love and cherish the weekends we just pack up and get away to Duluth and the vicinity. We spend the time together, just exploring, hiking, taking in the sights, being touristy,haha. I don't know. It's just nice to get away, take a break from our life, and just spend the 1-on-1 time together. It's like being in a separate world!
    It would be between when I had the flu knock me out for a week right before I took the bar, and he was there every day after work, bringing me medicine, food, moving the tv into my bedroom, and just being supportive...





    OR





    Early on...I mean, couple weeks after meeting him, he both watched my cat for a week when I went to visit my parents out-of-state, and dropped me off and picked me up at the airport. He earned major points, and it's about the time I realized he was probably going to stick around for awhile.
    My fiance and I rented a cottage up at a touristy beach area (Wasaga Beach in Ontario, for those of you who know what I'm talking about) for a week this past summer... gave us a nice taste of what it will be like when we're actually on our own... kind of a nice, domestic type feeling, and we worked well together getting things put together and such. He got to meet some of my relatives, as some of my favorites live in that area, and he got along with them great, which was excellent. It was just a really nice week. Too bad it was so short....

    Anybody else haing a hard time being faithful to your spouse?

    I have the best man in the world and I've been with only him for the past year but it is so hard. There's this one guy that makes my coochie so damn hot everytime I see him. I've never been faithful before so does anyone have any tips that would help me out? I want to stay true but this is killing me.Anybody else haing a hard time being faithful to your spouse?
    One night of ';supposed'; fun will break up your relationship, is it worth it? Besides this guy probably doesn't even care about you- he probably only cares about your '; hot coochie';. You just need to realize he probably isn't worth it.Anybody else haing a hard time being faithful to your spouse?
    If you are having trouble keeping your panties on you are either not having your needs met (emotional/physical) at home or you are just use to ';getting some'; whenever you feel like it. You obviously have not matured enough to be in a marriage.





    Do your spouse a favor and divorce him so you can go have fun again, he deserves better. Once a cheat always a cheat applies here.





    If you really want to not cheat.. then NEVER talk/look at to this person again.
    You have the best man in the world, yet you want to go sleep with some random guy just because he's cute? Wow, your husband deserves far better. Why don't you just divorce him, let him find someone who will treat him the way he needs to be and be single so you can sleep around with whomever you want.





    Someone who has never been faithful to anyone shouldn't be married. Why the farce?
    I cheated on my husband 3 years ago, even though he forgave me, he never managed to trust me again.


    He turned into this jealous, posessive, control freak, and we're now getting a divorce because of that. It really wasn't worth it.


    Try to inject new passion into your marriage - have you tried acting out fantasies, or dressing up? Trying new things can help to prevent sex from becoming boring and repetitive.


    Also try to remember why you fell for this guy in the first place - that will help you.


    Hope this helps xx
    If you truly loved him you wouldnt need to ask this question. I have been married for over 10 years and have never had a hard time being faithful. Being faithful to the one you love shouldnt be hard, in fact if you really loved your man, you wouldnt even be having these thoughts. Is a brief fling worth hurting your man, is it worth ruining your marriage? Get a life and honor your marriage vows.
    Well !!! You are not ready for a marriage yet. because it is something very complex.You have to really understand what it means. Because that's your whole life and also your kids's. If there is no love between you, maybe he is not the right guy for you. Think about it. Talk when you both laying down at night. Take vacations. Do different things. Build a strong relationship. But it all starts from how mature you or your husband are. Stop going to the club if you now, and seek God. Go to Church. Alright
    you will never be satisfied...not even by this new guy...you will always want more. Or





    this is normal...your hubby probably gets arounsed by otehr females too...its a matter of saying no and doingthe right thing...if you give in...yeah I think you are in for a lifetime of being controlled my your coochie and enver find true security
    You have no business being in any kind of committed relationship. By the way, couldn't you have worded your question in a less tacky way? Uck.
    i fell ya i am having the same prob. i dont want to cheat but damn is she hot and willing to do all those things you cant get at home. all i can say is just be strong
    i think that happens to a few of us lol it happens to me frequently lol but u just have to think is being unfaithful to your spouse worth losing him.. n if u really love him u will realize its not worth losin him
    I may be in my thirties and primed up but NO I don't have any trouble saving that for my spouse.
    It only shows that you don't really love your husband.
    Have sex with your hubby more.
    Hi, Rainbow. You want honest advice. Your business is your business. If you want to scratch that itch, do it but be discreet. Trust me, it will be the best sex you've ever had. Nothing wrong with nature, sweetheart.

    If you receive SSI Disabilty can you stay on your spouse's health insurance?

    If you are awarded disability do you have to get on Medicare/Medicaid or can you stay on your spouse's insurance through their employer? I am afraid of not being able to see my regular doctor if I have to get on Medicaid because so few doctors accept it. Anybody familiar with this?? Thanks in advance!If you receive SSI Disabilty can you stay on your spouse's health insurance?
    Yes, you can stay on your spouse's insurance. You can't get on Medicare until you've been on SSDI for 24 months. At that time you want to look into Medicare; in many cases Medicare with an Advantage plan is the better option.





    You can also get Medicaid and keep your current insurance. Your insurance would be primary and Medicaid would be secondary and could possibly pick up some of the co-pays.If you receive SSI Disabilty can you stay on your spouse's health insurance?
    Zarnev is correct, however not knowing your age, there are other considerations. If you decline Medicare when you become eligible, then you won't be able to get it until age 65. It may be worth the $96 a month to carry Medicare now in case something happened to your wife's coverage. And Medicare could pay in addition to your wife's coverage.
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